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Wicked Witch of the North

I have a confession to make. I was bored today and out of curiosity I did some Internet stalking. It occurred quite by accident as I stumbled across Ed's sisters blog in my favorites on Internet explorer (which I rarely use). I waned to see what happened with her surrogacy stuff and well I didn't get that far.

I read this quote "I'm thankful that he's no longer with the Wicked Witch of the North and has gone back to being his old self." My heart dropped.

Now to be fair its been almost two years since we broke up and it is possible she is talking about someone else besides me, and I do live "south" of them. Chances are she is talking about me. I felt really bad. I wanted to defend myself to tell her my side of the story. But why? Maybe this comment is just proof that I did the right thing not only for me and him but for his family.

The wicked witch comment stung, but not as long as it normally does because well she is wrong. She doesn't have to know it or believe it but its true. I truly believe that those I love know they can count on me for anything. If any of them needed anything I know I would be there as fast as my rendezvous would take me which makes me a good witch. If I have to be labeled as wicked to get the good done so be it.

I am now going to shamelessly toot my own horn. Breaking up with Ed was a loving decision. I decision I was able to make after being destroyed by a bad relationship and in my own deep depression and self loathing. Quite frankly I can be nothing but thrilled that I was able to catalyze the change in his life that has made him a great person and uncle today and I honestly hope that he is able to achieve whatever his goals are in life.

I am happy for him. I am happy for me. I have no regrets.

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  • Anonymous alice says so:
    7:08 PM  

    isn't it wicked witch of the east? she isn't very good at name calling. top

  • Blogger Ava Mazur says so:
    9:41 PM  

    well actually I think the one from the wizard of oz is the wicked witch of the west...who was avenging the death of her sister the wicked witch of the east. Glinda is the GOOD witch of the north...so yeah thats a really long explaination to say I agree the insult doesnt really make sense. top

  • Blogger Jennifer says so:
    4:15 PM  

    Precisely what I thought -- not very good at name-calling. top

  • Anonymous alice says so:
    10:02 PM  

    okay i wikipedia'ed it, you again are correct. top